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- Voice -
Brian Tracy (브라이언 트레이시)
Mel Robbins (멜 로빈스)
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Mel robbins
What's the first decision you made this morning?
I bet it was to go back to bed.
I get it! Your bed is comfortable! It's cosy, it's warm!
All day long you have ideas that could change your life
that could change the world that could change the way that you feel
and what do you do with them? Nothing!
There's one fact that you need to know. Just one.
Because you won't. Not now, not then, not ever!
You are never going to feel like it. Ever.
Motivation isn't happening, you're never going to feel like it.
You kill them. It's not my fault. It's not anybody's fault. You're doing it to yourself. Stop it!
Is that when you become eighteen,
nobody tells you that it's now going to be your job to parent yourself.
And by "parent yourself",
I mean it's your job to make yourself do the crap you don't want to do.
So you can be everything that you're supposed to be.
It's very, very simple to get what you want.
But it's not easy. You have to force yourself.
Brian Tracy
If somebody gets better grades than you
You think well this person is smarter than me.
So therefore if this person is smarter then I must be dumber.
So therefore "Why should I try?"
Because He is smarter and I'm dumber.
Then we go to the next step, We think well if he smarter than me he's probably than me.
But if he's better than me then I am worse than he is.
So then we think well he must be worth more than me.
So I must be worthless and this it the big problem we have.
It's we always look at ourselves as being less than other people.
and what that does is it causes you to put your foot on your own brakes and hold yourself back.
Instead of setting big goals you set little goals instead of persisting you quit.
Instead of becoming really successful you think of excuses and reasons why it's not possible.
"Oh, I'm too young."
"Oh, I'm too old." or
I didn't go to college or university or I didn't come from a rich home.
We always think of reasons to hold ourselves back.
I would like to tell you that there are no reasons.
All of the reasons exist in your own mind they don't exist in reality.
Your thoughts create your life that you can actually change your life by changing the thoughts
that you think because your life always goes in the direction of your thinking.
Mel robbins
And if you think about your life,
It's kind of funny because we are kids and then we become adults,
and we spend so much time trying to push our life into some sort of stable routine,
and then we grow bored of it!
You wake up at the same time every day,
you have largely the same breakfast,
you drive to work the same way, show up at work,
look busy, avoid making calls, update Facebook,
you attend a meeting and doodle the whole time,
go back and update Facebook, make plans for the evening,
you look busy some more, then drive home the same way,
you eat largely the same dinner you watch the same kind of media,
and then you go to bed, and do the same thing all over again
No wonder you're bored out of your mind!
It's the routine that's killing you. I have this theory about why people get stuck in life.
I think when you feel stuck or dissatisfied in your life, it's a signal.
And it's not a signal that your life is broken.
It's a signal that one of your most basic needs are not being met. Your need for exploration.
And the only way you'll get it is by forcing yourself to be uncomfortable.
Try this. Tomorrow morning, set your alarm for thirty minutes earlier.
And then when it goes off, take those sheets, throw them off, and stand up and start your day.
No delay. Do it.
And the reason why I want you to do it is because you will come face to face with the physical,
and I mean physical force that's required to change your behavior.
Those first three seconds when you push yourself out of bed, they blow.
But once you're up, it's great.
Get outside. That's where the magic is.
So I want you to take a millisecond right now and think about what you want.