How to Make Him Sexually Addicted to You

Purchase my course "The Psychological Game of Attraction": https://dalexis-school.thinkific.com WORK WITH ME 1-1: https://mindfulattraction.org/inner-game-coaching/ Purchase seminars & books: https://mindfulattraction.org/new-products-1/ JOIN MY FB GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mindfulattraction20 Follow me on twitter for updates: Twitter.com/dalexispe Follow me on instagram: @dalexisp 1.You must have something to offer. You must be in tune with your sexuality. How can you be exceptional in some way? It takes a lot of inner work to get there. First, fear of being judged must be put aside. Some women have the fear of being TOO sexual or not sexual enough. Too many times women are often not themselves and put off doing what they want like having sex on the first night, in fear of getting judged as an easy *SLUT*. However, a woman can still have sex the first date and completely avoid being thought of as a slut. The key to this is having an air of innocence. If you are highly sexual, and love to fuck , be subtle about it. Give little clues about what you can do in bed. The more of a surprise you give a man the more you must offer. So when expectations are set low, the reward is much higher. By acting shy, and innocent and you will unveil an awesome surprise that blows his mind. Therefore, there is no room for judgement. You were innocent. You act as though you don’t know what’s going on, but you do. And that makes you more confident and control in the situation. By knowing better and being in control, you can stir up his fantasy. However, this doesn’t work if you really are not into sex. If you act shy and then truly are not good and not enjoying sex, then this will not make him sexually addicted to you. Just lying there, and being boring , having a man do all the work, will result in him being repulsed. Work on yourself a little more and improve your own skills first before you try this tactic. 2. Variety It’s all about randomness. It’s not just about having sex in a bunch of positions (which is important) but also locations. For example, you don’t want to create the same old routine in missionary which is expected. The key is to manipulate expectations. Play with your innocence like you don’t know what’s going to happen, but you know, and when it does happen you unleash your sexuality. But beforehand, play the game of not knowing what to do, that you are an innocent little flower with the core of a freak. Always be innocent until proven freaky! So, when acting as if you don’t know what you are doing, you don’t know what a penis is and you don’t even know how to have sex (but you do) you are masking a gold mine with your modesty in a pleasantly shocking way. Like getting a gift in a small box but it turns out to being a key to a Bentley*. By being modest, you give yourself space to be yourself, and space for the freak to come out. What really shows that most of you don’t see is what you suppress. So, the sexuality you suppress is subtly being represented and felt by your partner, making him want you more. 3. Take Control Once you already used the element of surprise and had sex with him the first date. Now you are worried you will come off as “too easy.” The best thing to do now is to detach yourself from him. DON’T text him, call him, message him etc. This will control the pace of the relationship. You talk two days in a row, don’t talk for one, and mix it up. The reason pace is important because of what happens if you constantly talk after words or hit him up on the regular; he becomes used to you. Men tend to get comfortable and the relationship gets STALE. Give him space by saying NO, by not contacting him and being distant. Before saying bye to him, try to turn him on and then leave. Then act as if you lost interest. And then you return and add surprise to the relationship. That is what control is, but you need to feel out the situation. It doesn’t work all the time. You have the power to say no after you feel like you had sex too early. You should say to the guy your busy, or you don’t think you should hang out, and you just don’t see him for a while and restart. This leaves him with the impression of you being….