How To Tell If He Really Likes You—Or He Just Wants To Have Sex

Jumpstart the conversation here: http://www.yourtango.com/200940988/how-tell-if-he-likes-you-or-just-wants-fling Are you curious about the motives of the guy you’re dating? How can you tell if he’s actually interested in you, or just looking for a fling? Here's how to decode your man's true intentions when it comes to sex, love and relationships. [TRANSCRIPT] Hi, this is Doctor Diana Kirschner with AskYourTango answering your dating and relationship questions. Our question for today is from DeeDee. How do you tell if a guy is interested in you or just a fling. If you jump into bed with somebody you're- you're already having a fling and chances are it will tend to kill off that relationship because you're getting too close too soon, it's too hot, you don't really know each other, it's scary. So you wanna take your time and have self-control. You’ll tell them on a second date you know they're having a great time and but you're taking things slow and you're not available. You're not available sexually you're getting kissing, canoodling, it's very flirtatious, it's wonderful but you're really not available for sex. The ones who are in it for the long term and their not just in it for a fling will stay with you and they will want to create a relationship with you and those are the ones that really work out well. Got a question? Ask it now at http://www.yourtango.com/questions Follow YourTango: Twitter: http://twitter.com/yourtango Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/YourTango http://www.yourtango.com | Smart Talk About Love Photo: http://weheartit.com/entry/162356449/